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Showing posts with label Opinion. Show all posts
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Monday, September 6, 2010

Can a White Woman Tell Black Women how to be Beautiful?


Left to Right: Essence editor-in-chief Angela Burt Murray, Michaela Angela Davis, Elliana Plancas

By Akilah Porter
Readers and former employees of Essence magazine were outraged when the decision was made to promote a white woman to the position of fashion and beauty editor.
Although diversity is ideal in business, I think when it comes to this position for this particular magazine, only a woman of African dispora can tell other women in that group how to be beautiful and black. We can go to magazines like Elle, Cosmo or Lucky to get beauty tips for white women by white women, but now the magazine we once called our own is no longer ours only.
Former Essence writer Michaela Angela Davis has been speaking out against the decision since July. Hundreds of her Facebook supporters have taken her side on the issue by commenting on her page supporting her distaste in hiring Ellianna Plancas as the new fashion and beauty editor.
Davis insists that this is not reverse racism. She is concerned for the black women who will not have the opportunity to hold an editorial position because of incidences like this.

"Essence was the first magazine that says in their brand that it is for black women and their motto when I worked there was 'where black women come first,'" Davis said on CNN. "This is not about being racist, this is about wanting a place where black women can grow and flourish and go out and help diversify.”

Essence Editor-in-Chief Angela Burt Murray stands by her decision to hire Plancas and wants readers to stay loyal to the brand:
"I understand that this issue has struck an emotional chord with our audience...however I selected Ellianna, who has been contributing to the magazine on a freelance basis for the last six months, because of her creativity, vision, the positive reader response to her work and her enthusiasm and respect for the audience and our brand. We remain committed to celebrating the unique beauty and style of African-American women in Essence magazine and online at Essence.com."

Plancas previously worked at O: The Oprah Magazine and US Weekly.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Who you callin' a bitch? Oh, me.


By Martina Nwoga
In this day and age, young-minded, black females often are swayed by the music they listen to. According to Trina and Nicki Minaj, it’s cool for females to refer to each other as a “Bad Bitch.”

Here are some lyrics from Trina's song Killin You Hoes:
“The baddest bitch is back,
I'm back part 2, part 2
I'm reloaded and I'm killin you hoes…
You see dat outfit bitch
I'm killin you hoes”

These are lyrics from Nicki Minaj's Go Hard:
“And me, I'm that nasty son of a bitch
I still got that bitch cum on my lips”

With social media networks like Facebook and MySpace, I see too many Black females referring to themselves as the “Baddest Bitch.” But when a male calls a female a bitch, it’s a problem. I don’t see what the difference is. If you refer to yourself as a bitch, then why get mad when someone else refers to you in that same way. I, personally, can’t fathom how someone can degrade themselves.

The popular saying: actions speak louder than words may be why males refer to some females as bitches and hoes. For example, I saw a female who was dressed half-naked at a club get called a bitch by some guy after she got mad that he grabbed her arm. Now I’m not agreeing that the guy should have grabbed the female or should have called her a bitch, but it just goes to show that if a guy perceives the girl as bitch then he just may refer to her as one.

So all in all, I would like to know why females who refer to themselves as a “Bitch” become irate when a man refers to them in the same way. Is it because the B word has grown to have different connotations similar to the word “Nigga?” For example, if a Black person calls another Black person a “Nigga” then it’s okay, correct? But if a Caucasian calls a Black person a “Nigga,” it’s a problem.

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Commentary: A Governmental Push to End Sagging


Photo via GQ
NY senator Eric Adams is running a campaign to end sagging. Read Dwayne Yates' commentary on sagging and more about Adams below.







By Dwayne Yates
I remember the day I started sagging my pants. I was 13, in the seventh grade and was walking home from school. It was a warm, spring day. I know so because I remember I wasn't wearing a jacket. I actually remember exactly what I was wearing. On top, I had on a blue and orange plaid Ecko shirt and a pair of jeans by the Tommy Hilfiger brand.
I only remember one thing from the day at school preceding this walk. I had a conflict with a white girl concerning my mixing Tommy and Ecko. I quickly shut her down by saying something sharp advising her not to mix Wal-Mart and KMart.
She didn't change my mind about how I dressed--I just remember that exchange too vividly to leave it out of this story. It was all my peers that prompted this change in the way I wore my pants.
If there is one thing I remember about middle school, it is how judgmental everyone was toward one another. If someone had bad hair, their hair was the day's topic of discussion. If you wore the same jeans more than one day a week, people noticed and told you they noticed. I remember people always had something to say about the clothes I wore. My mother kept me draped in turtlenecks, button ups, and khakis. People called me white because that and my vernacular. If being different was a crime, being "white" was a felony five.
I now know that people may have been jealous of me and I should have stayed true to myself, but that teenage insecurity got the best of me, and on that warm spring day in Akron, the world got its first glimpse of my butt cheeks.
By tenth grade, I was wearing tall, white tees so you couldn't see what color my underwear were no matter how low my pants were. I was also looking like less of a gentleman than ever. I dressed so thuggish I had people believing I was someone I wasn't. And, I am pleased to say that those days are over. With the help of college and adulthood, I am more of a gentleman than ever. Now, I see young men--even little cousins--with the same sagging problem that I had just two years ago and sigh.
As black men, we don't have control over many things in this world. One thing we do have control over, though, is how we dress. More importantly, we have control over how low we wear our pants.
I remember rap music was at the height of its profitability during my years in middle and high school. Rappers seemed to have it all: Money, cars, clothes and hoes. They also had a specific look to them. You could even call it a uniform: Big shirt or Jersey, baggy jeans, chain, hat cocked and a du-rag present. Take a second and look around you. If there are any brothas around, what are they wearing? If it's what I just described, they're subject to this media brainwashing rap music has left in the black community on how men should dress. They're also living in the past.
The trend of wearing huge, unflattering clothing is on the decline. This could be due to a new social climate in America. The president is black. That has already changed the attitudes of people in this country, no matter their color. President Obama is always dapper and wearing a suit.
Music has also changed. Pop music is on top, and the last super-star rapper, Jay-Z, is a business mogul who traded in his tees for tailor-made suits. The other greatest rapper alive, Lil' Wayne, wears skinny jeans and plays guitar. With these and many more black men breaking norms, black culture has changed and is changing at a rate faster than it took for America to get its first black president.
There are still some who are not progressing, though. Not all black men want to look like they have somewhere to be in twenty minutes. Some would much rather street trap and goon all day long in their jeans that touch the ground.
New York senator Eric Adams is running a campaign to end sagging. His slogan is "Raise your pants, raise your image!" It makes sense to me. If people don't see your derrière in the first thirty seconds of knowing you, they might have a little more respect for you.
Even if the political move does make sense, Russell Simmons thinks the senator buying eight billboards in Brooklyn to spread his message is a waste of time. He says kids don't want to dress like Sen. Adams.
I don't want to dress like Sen. Adams, but I like his message. Let's remember that Simmons made millions of dollars off of sagging with his popular clothing line Phat Farm. Lines like Phat Farm and Ecko aren't making money anymore, though, because their clothes had no longevity. They were static. They cashed in off the street wear trend, but now the climate has changed so Simmons is biased. It's definitely not a waste of time to encourage young, black men to take pride in their appearance. I just don't know if spending state dollars on eight billboards is smart in these economic times. It just may be a waste of money.
I feel that there is a renaissance on the horizon. In bigger cities, black men and women are taking pride in how they dress. They pay attention to detail and even include ethnic accessories and patterns in their wardrobes. I admit that sometimes my pants find their way below my ass, but I take time to pull them up. Degrading yourself to fit in with people who degrade themselves makes no sense. Don't settle for a life you weren't destined to live.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Modista presents Dreamland

Modista hosted the first fashion show to take place on Rockwell Hall's runway in decades last Friday. The event ended Black History Month programming by taking its audience to dreamland. If dreamland is where the best fashion show at Kent State in the past three years takes place then Kori Fields and members of Modista sure got us there.

Co-founder of Modista, Fields, exudes confidence walking the runway in a chartreuse dress she made. The fabric is weaved on the silhouette of the dress. This is one part of her collection.

Intrendzick designer Jasmine Williams took spectators to the dark side of glamor. Models appeared to be incredibly vain as they exited a picture frame and posed as mannequins.

Williams' designs coming down the runway.

Audience members were heard saying "I'm scared" when designer Marquis "Lucky" Engle's scene began. His one part Rihanna, one part Saw introduction set a tone for his collection. From his "Diva" shades to the reoccurring shoulder pads, the whole collection encompassed what urban edginess is today. It was nice to see studded shades pushed to another level when Engle put a broken CD on the lenses of a pair of his shades.

This was Ashley Tolliver's first make-up scene in Ohio in almost a year. With Ashley Morgan on hair, Tolliver had audience members talking more about their leotards designs than their hair and make-up skills. Morgan used interesting colors to create couture hair, and Tolliver gave the models a natural look to match hair colors. But it was the pearl-embellished leotards that left the audience talking.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

Sex Column: Let’s Get Undressed and Watch TV


As we get closer to the holidays it always gets busier. Some people forget to say “I love you” to the people they care about. Some people may skip a few credit card payments. And others, like me, may be so busy they forget to masturbate.

If you don’t know me by now, once I notice a problem I will fix it, especially if it is a sexual problem.

One night while watching television, I found my answer.

Lately MTV has been airing retro shows. One you might recall is Remote Control, a popular game show where contestants must correctly answer trivia questions based on television, music and movies. Another is “Beavis and Butthead," a cartoon by creator Mike Judge about two outcast teenagers living in Texas.

But what I really wish they would re-air is Undressed, a provocative late-night drama offering a mix of soap-opera dialogue and soft-core porn. It followed college (and some high school) students and their fetishes, sex-escapades and relationships. Episodes were titled with the most erogenous of insinuations: "Bi-Gones," "Twice a Virgin," and "Three in the Van." Savy, older, night owls who watched undressed during the earlier part of the decade would be sure to catch the sexual inneundo. But when I first saw the show I was only in elementary school.

Nonetheless, I loved Undressed because it was the closest thing to porn I had besides the blurred and fuzzy HBO channel. When I look back at that time period, I now know the true meaning of the phrase "ignorance is bliss." I laughed at a pink vibrating thing that looked like a lipstick contanier. But not becuase I knew it was for pleasure. I just wondered why the hell it was vibrating. But when a man and a woman cuddled in a bed, I knew I figured out the truth behind the whole stork story. I loved Undressed beacuse it gave me something that I had never seen before on TV: promiscuity.

So the nostalgia and intimate connotations on Undressed got me thinking: When was the last time I watched porn? To me, the only reasons porn is unnecessary are a) When you are getting the real thing, and b)When you become so addicted you forget what the real thing is.

For me, it has been two months of no porn! And now that I am an adult, reruns of Undressed don't count. But luckily for all you readers out there, after I made the porn-celibacy discovery through my childhood recollections, it ended. And it felt great. Thank you, Undressed, for helping me get back to my sexual roots.

For those who excel in masturbation or for those who would like to learn a few things, you are in luck. As an early Christmas present, I decided to compile a list of my favorite (and mostly free!) porn sites. Enjoy.

If you are into…

Porn stars like Jenna Haze, Lexington Steele and Lacey Duvalle…

http://www.SpankWire.com

Porn with a plot…

http://www.brazzers.com

Something random…

http://www.KeezMovies.com

A certain category…

http://www.Xnxx.com


Erotic literature…

http://www.literotica.com

Lesbians…

http://www.lesbian-sapphic-erotica.com

Gay porn…

http://www.skeezy.com

Group sex or Orgies…

http://www.madsexparty.com

Weird Porn…

http://www.strangeweirdporn.com

Amateurs or a Quick Fix…

http://www.youporn.com

A mixture of Amateurs, Porn Stars, video and pictures.

http://www.xxxpornorgy.com



You can watch Undressed episodes here: http://www.undressedtv.com

Questions for the readers: How often do you watch porn? What's your favorite porn site?

Monday, November 16, 2009

Sex Column: Seven Minutes in Heaven


Photo from Voice of Words
Written by: The Jaguar
When most people wake up, the first thing they look at is their alarm clock or their phone for some sign of the time. But when I wake up, I don’t always want to know what time it is. If it where up to me, there would be no clocks. So people could make love all day long and not worry about being late for anything. If clocks ceased to exist, maybe guys would last longer. And guys, if there were no longer clocks, women could no longer utter: “Not tonight, I have an early class.” To me, clocks are a key component in what makes sex so rushed and not fulfilling. Don’t get me wrong, quickies are always wonderful. (Once before my piano recital, I did a quickie and I swear my crescendos went higher than ever.) If I look at the time anyway, chances are it’s after 11:30 a.m.
Instead of the clock, the first thing I see is two opened Trojan Magnums and one flavored condom wrapper on the floor in my room, the guy who put on the condoms downstairs on the couch and my black Victoria’s Secret bra downstairs in my roommates purse. I try to assess the night. Why in the world would a gorgeous, perfectly fit boy be sleeping downstairs? Why does my roommate have my bra in her purse? I shrug it off. Who knows. I walk past the kitchen and trip over glasses of malt beverages, clear a section of the counter from shot glasses and pour a cup of 7UP. Hungover. I then wake up the beautiful man, ask him when he’s leaving. Grab my bra from my roommates’ purse and head back upstairs to clean my room full of condom wrappers, misplaced clothing and spilled drinks.
According to my trusty threaded iPhone text, me and my roommate ending up playing a drinking game that resulted in maximum stripping. After the strip show me and they boy went upstairs for the main attraction that lasted a grand total of seven minutes. Turns out, I booted the man downstairs, due to lack of longevity. I then wrote myself an excuse list for the first time, including the classic line of “I have to wake up early tomorrow, sorry. “
On a scale of one to ten, this night was a three. After all, it did happen on tame Tuesday.
I did, however, throw the excuse list away (I’m not the type of girl to turn down sex) and gave the guy another chance. Like wine, it gets better with time. So what is the moral of this story? (And yes, sex can have morals!)
The next time you have sex, please don’t think about the time, think about the moment. Think about the passionate feelings, the inimitable connection.
I am your new Uhuru columnist specializing in men (and yes, women) sex , relationships, sexual education and sex humor. And if you don’t agree with me, minute man, perhaps you should wake up!

 
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